More mysteries that I have been thinking about...
Following Solomon's list of things that he finds amazing...My list continues...
1. Faithfulness shown in old couples who have been with each other for the most part of their lives. The way old couples hold hands and cross the road, stroll in parks, take bus together... they amazes me... Wonder what made them held on to another for the rest of their lives...
2. Unfaithfulness shown in men n women who decided to go separate ways after they have committed to another in marriage.
Why do people get married? If marriage is about staying with another sinner, if marriage is not easy, if marriage means you need to constantly adjust to suit another person, they why do so many people still want to get married?
Seriously all married couples with the exception of 1, told me this, “marriage is not easy”. And one day I got angry in my heart! I was not sure why I got angry. The feeling is like, if getting married is so difficult, then don't get married la. I just don' understand why still so many want to be married. (I get angry because I don't have the reasons? I don't know)
If marriage is a torture, why torture am glad for the one person who told me that he had a wonderful marriage with his wife. I am thankful for him who did not tell me that marriage is difficult... e he is the rare one.
Unless I find the reason and purpose for marriage, marriage is a tough choice. Not for the fainted-hearted to venture.
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